You know her.
She’s confident. Centered. She speaks with love and walks in peace. She’s intentional with her time, clear about her boundaries, and kind to herself — even on the hard days.

She’s the woman you imagine you'll become… once things settle down.
Once the house is clean, the kids are older, the job is less demanding.

But what if she isn’t waiting on a perfect season?
What if she’s already in you — just waiting for permission?

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Why This Pillar Matters

So many of us live in waiting rooms — waiting for more time, more energy, or the right moment to start showing up for ourselves.

We tell ourselves:

• “I’ll focus on my health when things slow down.”

• “I’ll feel confident when I lose the weight.”

• “I’ll rest after I finish everything else.”

But the woman you’re becoming isn’t found in delay. She’s formed in the small, daily choices to show up with courage, grace, and self-trust.

She doesn’t need you to be perfect.
She needs you to be present.

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What “Becoming Her” Really Looks Like

It’s not about becoming someone new. It’s about remembering who you are underneath the noise.

It looks like:

• Saying no without guilt

• Honoring your values when no one’s watching

• Keeping promises to yourself, even the small ones

• Letting go of the version of you that’s trying to please everyone

It’s less about changing yourself — and more about coming home to yourself.

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5 Steps to Start Becoming Her — Now

Here are five intentional practices to help you step into the woman you already are.

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1. Stop Waiting for “Someday”

There will never be a perfect time. Life is always moving, always shifting.
Start with what you have. Do what you can.

Choose one area — maybe it’s your morning routine, the way you speak to yourself, or how you protect your rest — and begin there.

Ask yourself:
What am I putting off that I actually have the power to begin today?

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2. Visualize Her — and Act Accordingly

Take a few moments to write about the woman you’re becoming.

• How does she speak to herself?

• What are her non-negotiables?

• How does she show up when she feels tired or triggered?

Then: start living like her now — even in 5-minute decisions.

You’re not pretending. You’re practicing.

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3. Create Space to Hear Yourself Again

You can’t become the woman you’re called to be if you’re constantly drowning in noise.

Carve out quiet. That might mean:

• Leaving your phone in another room for an hour

• Saying no to something that drains you

• Waking up 15 minutes earlier to journal

In the stillness, clarity will come. She’s already whispering to you — you just need space to hear her.

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4. Let Go of Who You’re Not

Becoming who you are requires shedding who you’re not.

That might mean:

• Releasing people-pleasing patterns

• Letting go of the version of you that’s rooted in hustle or fear

• Walking away from habits that feel familiar but not life-giving

Grieving old versions of yourself is sacred work. But so is embracing who you’re becoming.

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5. Speak Life Over Yourself

Words shape identity. And you hear your own voice louder than anyone else’s.

Try these affirmations as daily reminders:

• I am growing into a woman I respect and love.

• I am allowed to take up space and move slowly.

• I am not waiting — I am rising.

• I am becoming her, one brave choice at a time.

Write them in your planner. Say them out loud. Let your inner voice become your most loving companion.

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Using Your Planner to Anchor the Journey

The Love My Life Planner is more than a productivity tool — it’s a mirror.
It helps you live aligned with the woman you’re becoming.

Use the Self section to:

• Track small daily wins and habits

• Record affirmations and mindset shifts

• Set intentional goals (that feel like you)

• Reflect on how you’re showing up with love for yourself

This isn’t about “doing more.”
It’s about becoming more of who you were always meant to be.

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This Week’s Challenge

Try one of these each day:

1. Write out a “Becoming Her” journal entry

2. Choose one habit your future self would commit to

3. Say no to something that doesn’t align

4. Speak a new affirmation out loud

5. Rest without guilt

Each step is a vote for the woman you’re becoming.

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Final Thoughts from Jeneane

You’re not waiting for her anymore.
You’re becoming her — in the quiet, courageous, imperfect ways that no one else sees but heaven does.

Keep showing up. Keep choosing love.
And remember: the woman you’re waiting for isn’t out there — she’s already inside you.

With love,
Jeneane
Founder, Love My Life