Life gets loud. Between work, marriage, motherhood, and the never-ending list of responsibilities, friendships often slip quietly to the background. You tell yourself, “I’ll call her next week” or “We’ll get together soon.” But weeks turn into months, and before you know it, the distance feels bigger than you imagined.

The Friends pillar of the Love My Life framework is about pushing back against that drift. Because friendship isn’t just a “nice-to-have” — it’s a lifeline. It’s a source of joy, identity, accountability, and belonging.

This post is your reminder that it’s never too late to reconnect. That investing in the people who bring you life will always be worth it.

Why the Friends Pillar Matters

Research shows that deep, supportive friendships don’t just make us happier — they make us healthier and more resilient. Women with close friends are less likely to feel isolated, more likely to thrive emotionally, and even physically stronger.

Friendship is sacred. It’s where you are reminded that you are more than your roles. It’s where laughter heals stress, where vulnerability builds trust, and where presence matters more than perfection.

Friendships deserve our intentional care, even in the busiest seasons.

5 Ways to Rebuild and Maintain Friendship

Here are simple ways to nurture the friendships that nurture you — even when life is full.

1. Be the One to Reach Out

Don’t wait for the perfect moment. Send the text. Make the call. A quick “Hey, I miss you let’s catch up soon” goes a long way in closing the gap.

2. Lower the Pressure

Friendship doesn’t need fancy dinners or long weekends away. It can be voice memos exchanged while folding laundry, a walk around the block, or coffee on the porch. Keep it simple. Keep it consistent.

3. Honor Important Dates

Mark birthdays, anniversaries, or meaningful milestones in your planner. A quick message on those days reminds your friend that they matter and that you’re paying attention.

4. Share the Small Things

Don’t wait until you have big news. Share the funny meme, the random thought, or the small win. Friendship is built in the ordinary details of life.

5. Show Up in the Hard Stuff

Real friends lean in when things get messy. Don’t be afraid to ask, “How can I show up for you right now?” Sometimes presence — even in silence — is the best gift.

Using Your Planner to Nurture Friendships

The Love My Life Planner is more than a tool for tasks — it’s a tool for relationships. Use the Friends section to:

• List friends you want to intentionally invest in

• Track birthdays, prayer requests, and milestones

• Schedule low-pressure hangouts

• Reflect on what friendship means to you

Let your planner remind you that relationships are as worthy of attention as responsibilities.

This Week’s Friendship Challenge

Try these prompts to bring life back into your friendships:

1. Send a “thinking of you” text to one friend.

2. Schedule a 15-minute call or FaceTime this week.

3. Write a short note or card and mail it.

4. Celebrate a small win in your friend’s life.

5. Do one small act of kindness for someone in your circle.

Final Thoughts From Jeneane

Friendship doesn’t demand perfection — just presence. You don’t need to show up polished or with all the right words. You just need to show up.

The Friends pillar of Love My Life is your reminder that you are worthy of friendships that make you feel safe, seen, and celebrated. And those friendships are worth tending to, even in the busiest of seasons.

So send the text. Make the plan. Laugh, cry, and reconnect. Because life was never meant to be lived alone.

With love,
Jeneane
Founder, Love My Life